Am I right or wrong to return to Mauritius?

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kaomachileshe

As I have lived in the UK for many years, I expect there have been many changes in the behaviour and mentality of Mauritians and the society.

I have not experienced the impolite, aggressive, unreliable and two faced behaviour of Mauritians and professionals (civil servants/nurses/police etc).

My questions to all of you 'clever dodo' supporters ,Is it foolish for me to plan to return to Mauritius to start a new life, with a new partner/wife? Would I be able to live a happy, enjoyable and peaceful life? Would my new lady partner be sincere, kind and caring.

Thank you.

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emma_6 Level 1

I will strongly suggest against. The Mauritian mentality have not for better. Very very selfish. I hv witness sm people who r without ä roof and their neighbour is driving ä ferrarri. No sense of charity. I can go on and on. Please dnt move to mauritius

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mogsibartie
mogsibartie Level 1

Dear friends, just like there are thieves worldwide so are people with different mindsets....IL FAUT DE TOUT POUR EN FAIRE UN MONDE...Even, I was in the same position as you are some years back. I had to write the pros and cons of returning to mtius.
Today, i'm married, has a job and two wonderful kids not to forget that I am well surrounded and supported by familes and friends....I'm happy that I was here when my parents needed me...and can console myself thay I was here when my dad died.
Friends, life is short similar to a ruler and of all it's fickle....do what pleases you...
When I was living under the same roof of my sister and bro in law in England, we were like a family yet I was eager to come back because there was nothing apart from money not to forget as you earn so you spend...
MY BRO who was so fond of leaving there yet decided to come here to cut off time with families and friends after being diagnosed with a serious desease overthere...He died after around 40 days of leaving mtius...He tried hard to come back ...but on the day of his flight he died...
WHAT WAS THE USE OF WORKING SO HARD FOR YRS OVERTHERE... HE COULD AFFORD EVERYTHING BUT HE COULDNT AFFORD TO MEET AND SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH HIS FAMILIES/FRIENDS IN MTIUS DURING HIS LAST BREATHS.WE ARE STILL CRYING FOR THE LOST OF SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON

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dodoisunhappy Level 1

Sad to hear about your brother. Your comments contain some loving and heartfelt feelings. I am in the same boat.Ihave missed the atmosphere of Mauritius. Good profession, money etc are all part of life but love,affections,
frienship,family and the normal life in Mauritius,I have missed.

I will keep all the comments in mind and think hard about my next move......for now,only God knows

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Keshav007 Level 1

I would say the Mauritian mentality has improved a lot, it all comes down to where you live though.

I was once in a gas station in a village and decided to buy a drink while my car is being fuelled, i was the only one waiting for the cashier since she was busy chatting with her colleagues anyways i was there waiting for her and then one man came from nowhere and stood right in front of me. Hello? I'm like wtf. So i told him, excuse me? I was the first one. I didn't try to be rude or anything i just said it in a polite manner.

This old creep starts talking nonsense to me in French and yeah he was a local and not to mention that even a kid can talk better french than him. He starts telling me yeah i come here everyday i was gonna let you pass first and shit like that in a rude way. His tone was just not good, i didn't say anything just because he was an old man. I just paid for my drink and went away silently.

TIP: If you are going to move to Mauritius, choose to live in a place like "Grand baie" where people are really cool.

mogsibartie
mogsibartie Level 1

Just as there is thieves everywhere, negative attitudes are come from everywhere....Even, I had this confusion and couldn't make out my mind some 10 years ago...I had to write the pros and cons of returning to my native country...I agree I was earning a lot more from my part time job...but then my families were here...Today, i'm married and has 2 wonderful kids and of all has a job and can afford a car and is progressing in life here in Mauritius.
My friend our lives are like rulers...we don't really know how long it is though...but we say life is too short.Do things which give you pleasure....if you need the warmth and support of families why not?
10 Years ago, I was living with my sister and brother in law in England. THOUGH my bro used to complain abt Mauritius yet he had that soft corner for his native country...They used to work hard to visit at least once a yr...Lately, he had made himself a lot of wealth and visited us as usual but this time when he left, he tried to come back here to cut off time in mtius for his remaining days after he was diagnosed with a serious desease....on the day of his flight, he died

Creole1948
Creole1948 Level 1

Having considered it for many years and after a number of visits I have decided against it, in spite of being brought up on the island and having a Mauritian wife. While others have written about Mauritius being behind the times in many ways, all of which strikes me as true, there are deeper underlying issues that have not changed in the 65 years since I started school there, in fact I have come to believe that many of the darker sides of humanity have become more prevalent in the last twenty years or so. It would be naive to think that the problems society faces in Europe are any less prevalent in Mauritian society and therefore that one might be 'escaping' the trials of modern life, more so when considering bringing up children. It does take a couple of years to become aware that sunshine, beaches and gateaux piments are not everything in life and that perhaps a holiday visit might provide you with the good without the bad. As to your last question, the choice of a partner would be just as difficult as anywhere else and might just be fraught with a few more difficulties. Many of my generation sought and found partners there and the majority did not end happily. Sorry for the lecture but my message is to think very, very carefully and dip your toes in the (metaphoric) water before committing. It might be colder than you'd expect!

gices
gices Level 6

I concur :)

gices
gices Level 6

I sold my house in the UK with a view to settle in Mauritius and 2 years later, I moved back to England. You can read about my experiences here, here and here.

My personal opinion after living in the UK is that Mauritius is very far behind in terms of mentality, security and opportunities. You may find it different but for me, returning back was not a good move.

kaomachileshe
kaomachileshe Level 1

Wow, my boyfriend got a job as an Expat and he is moving there. I have been so emotional about him leaving me behind. He suggested I look for work there and you know what, I said, he must go and we will see how things work when he is there.... I guess things are going to get even more expensive....

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